There are a variety of factors that can take a toll on a marriage, and they may lead to divorce being the best solution for both spouses.
When a couple decides to proceed with a divorce, it heavily impacts their children. One way to ensure that both parents are able to spend equal, or fair, time with their child(ren) is by developing an appropriate time sharing schedule.
In the state of Florida, “time sharing” is the term used to replace prior terms, such as custody, visitation, or primary residential parent, as those terms suggest possession over a child, which may result in unnecessary confrontation. The marriage may have ended, but their child(ren) means continuing a familial bond, which is why it’s important to develop an agreeable time sharing schedule in the best interest of the child(ren). This is the touchstone the judge will keep in mind in examining a potential time sharing schedule.
3 Considerations When Creating Your Time Sharing Schedule
Your attorney or mediator can help you evaluate and determine an ideal time sharing schedule that will work best for you and your family. However, the following are three considerations divorced parents should keep in mind when creating a time sharing schedule.
#1: There is no right or wrong schedule
Every family is unique and has different schedules and needs. There are a variety of ways to create the best schedule for both spouses and for the child(ren), whose interests should always be put first when creating a time sharing schedule. This may mean evaluating the undertaking and management of the following:
- Shopping
- Homework
- Doctor visits
- School and event transportation
#2: Don’t let emotions affect your time sharing schedule
Divorces can be mentally and emotionally complex and exhausting. There is a reason why you have chosen to part ways with your spouse, but the subliminal feelings of betrayal or abandonment should not overshadow the importance of your schedule.
As long as both parents are doing right by their child(ren) and not putting them in danger or harm’s way, both parties should do their best to keep their shared times fair and balanced for their child(ren), and in the child(ren)’s best interest
#3: Consistency is key to stability
Though your schedule is not permanent and may change as the child grows, consistency is key to providing the child with stability.
When you are combing through yours and your child’s routines (homework, bedtime, bath, extracurricular activities, school, etc.), you should consider what may be the best schedule that fosters the most consistency in their day-to-day life.
Creating a time sharing schedule often requires the expertise and objectivity of a mediator or lawyer. At Apfelbaum Law, we are committed to providing high-quality professional services notwithstanding the size and type of the matter. Our team strives to provide effective representation with the goal of remaining efficient and cost-friendly.
Contact us today to learn how we can help you create an effective schedule for your family.
