In Florida, child custody is referred to as time-sharing, and the time-sharing schedule is just one part of the parenting plan.
A parenting plan is a civil contract that dictates how divorced parents will work together to raise their minor child or children. The parenting plan form, as set forth by the State of Florida, includes a number of issues, including parental responsibility, time-sharing, participation in (and payment for) extra-curricular activities, payment for medical expenses, and more.
Time-sharing plans are meant to be in children’s best interests while supporting ongoing parent–child relationships. Consider these three tips for when crafting a time-sharing schedule.
#1 Show the Details of Your Time-Sharing Arrangement
The details of your time-sharing arrangement should be clearly explained in writing, and a calendar is strongly recommended as part of your parenting plan. Some counties even require a visual of the time-sharing details.
Time-sharing schedules should include an everyday schedule that details dates and times for which parent is responsible for the child, a holiday schedule that shows which parent the child is staying with for the holidays, and a summer break schedule.
The plan should also include provisions about how and where the child will be exchanged, information on who will transport the child, what they should bring with them between homes, and what will transpire should a parent arrive later than the plan requires.
#2 Plan for Multiple Scenarios
If your time-sharing plan only covers daily “normal” situations, then you may be disappointed when unavoidable scenarios pop up. For this reason, it is important to make sure your parenting plan anticipates multiple scenarios that may arise.
Think of your parenting plan as your failsafe. When the unexpected scenario or problem presents itself, you will have your time-sharing agreement to provide guidance and hopefully prevent disputes
#3 Be Ready to Compromise
When you’re negotiating the details of your parenting plan, remember that the process and the result is meant to be about your child’s best interests. Consider the time the child may be traveling back and forth, homework pressures, and after-school activities when negotiating your plan. . In doing so, you may find that both sides need to compromise in order to make the overall experience as smooth as possible for the child.
In the end, your willingness to compromise and to be flexible for the well-being of the child will help strike a balance that hopefully works for everyone.
Hire a Lawyer to Draft Your Parenting Plan
If you need someone to advocate for your future and protect your rights as a parent, while serving as a guide through the legal process, Apfelbaum Law understands the sensitive nature of family law matters and can advise you. To discuss your time-sharing and parenting plan concerns, please contact Apfelbaum Law today for a consultation.
