Divorce is never simple, and whatever the length of your marriage, getting divorced can be demanding on both your emotional and financial resources. If you’re unprepared or uninformed, it could be even more challenging.
It is important to understand the specific laws of the state in which you reside and to seek qualified legal professionals with experience in divorce cases that can advise you. Obtaining accurate information on all matters related to divorce, such as parental rights and responsibilities, spousal support, division of assets and liabilities, and protection orders is essential in obtaining a fair resolution.
Seeking counsel from an attorney who specializes in family law, such as our qualified team at Apfelbaum Law, will help ensure your rights are properly accounted for throughout the difficult process.
5 Tips for a Manageable Divorce
Here, we are sharing five tips as an initial guide to making divorce as manageable as possible.
#1 Choose the Right Lawyer
When considering how to choose the right divorce lawyer, it is important to take into account a variety of factors. Research each potential lawyer’s areas of expertise and experience in handling these kinds of cases. Ask questions about their ability to handle difficult negotiations, manage joint property division, and any court appearances needed throughout the process. Make sure the lawyer you are speaking to knows the facts of your case and the things that are important to you, and that your questions about the process are fully answered.
During the initial consultation, pay attention to the lawyer’s style and methods of communication. Make sure it is a good fit for you and your case.
The right lawyer will act both as your advocate in court and with your spouse’s lawyer, and as a sounding board and resource for you, making sure you have all the information and advice you need to make good decisions about how to proceed in your case.
Find an attorney who will fight for what you want and will be upfront with you as to what can be and what is likely to be achieved. You need accurate objective advice to make the best decisions during what is sure to be an emotional time for you and your family.
#2 Make a Plan
It is important to create a list of what you need and want as a part of the divorce, and make sure your lawyer is aware of these things which will likely change throughout the process.
While working with your divorce lawyer, ensure you’ve collected the information and documentation for your financial affairs so that all the information required is available. Florida law has specific requirements about the required documents. You should also locate and examine any existing legal documents, such as prenuptial agreements or wills, and have those prepared to share with your lawyer.
#3 Make Plans for Your Children
Most divorces follow the same fundamental procedures, but when children are involved, additional considerations and decisions are necessary. If you have children, think through your wishes and your desired living arrangements, timesharing, child support needs, and how each parent will be involved in important decisions for the child(ren). Florida terms this “parental responsibility,” and it is different from who a child lives with. There will also be a required form called a “Parenting Plan” that your lawyer will discuss with you.
#4 Get Support
Create a support system of friends and family that will be there for you throughout the process. Choose trustworthy people that will help you stay positive and who will create an environment of support as you work through the challenges that divorce will bring.
#5 Stay Focused
Be prepared to compromise and be flexible. Remember that both you and your spouse have fifty percent of the ability to influence the process. Neither one of you can force the other to do or not do anything in the divorce. The divorce process is not a forum to punish or “get” your spouse for perceived wrongs, no matter how much you may feel they deserve such treatment.
Family Law is One of Our Specialties
At Apfelbaum Law, we strive to provide our clients with the highest level of service and qualified legal advice. Our experienced team of family law attorneys is well versed in all aspects of family law, including divorce, child support, adoption and custody agreements, alimony and spousal support, prenuptial agreements, guardianship, and more.
In addition to providing personalized representation, we take pride in helping individuals and families achieve their desired goals through the most effective legal strategies available. We believe it is important to equip our clients with knowledge that enables them to make informed decisions. If you have any questions related to family law in Florida or have questions about other legal issues, please contact us today for a consultation.
